by Esther C. Bleuel | Nov 27, 2012
Last month we talked about how to handle some difficult situations that may arise around the holidays. Not surprisingly, we barely scratched the surface of all the possible ways family gatherings can go awry. Here are three more topics we … Read the rest
by Esther C. Bleuel | Oct 26, 2012
With the holidays coming, now is a good time to think about how to handle some difficult situations that may arise. In these short videos, Esther talks about some common problems that pop up with friends and family. Next month, … Read the rest
by Esther C. Bleuel | Sep 25, 2012
The dictionary describes “grudge” as a persistent feeling of ill will or resentment; unwilling to give or allow a thing.
A grudge may seem a silent punishment for an insult, injury or offense, some of which are inadvertent; some intentional. … Read the rest
by Esther C. Bleuel | Aug 20, 2012
“You cannot go through life without one,” said Oprah, on a recent Lifeclass with guest Iyanla Vanzant. The meaning of “one” in this case, was a hard conversation.
Before introducing the family who were the guests to be “helped,” Iyanla and Oprah … Read the rest
by Esther C. Bleuel | Jun 20, 2012
Wouldn’t it be good if we could comprehend the true meaning during a difficult conversation? We could listen ‘below the line’ or ‘underneath’ for nuances, clues, unspoken messages and non- verbal signals. How can we can do this without an … Read the rest
by Esther C. Bleuel | May 15, 2012
Why are some relationships closer, more connected and ‘cleaner,’ than others? Clean means no secrets (overt or covert), no withholding, straight, honest and kind communication.
A friendship requires reciprocity where each person is free to be themselves and say what’s … Read the rest