Do you procrastinate or shut down when there’s conflict?

Seems like you’re powerless to change your ways?

Do you second-guess yourself too often?

Too often fail to keep agreements you make with yourself?

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Don’t Just Settle

You Can Get Unstuck and Finish Strong

Getting Unstuck, Experience The Joy of Finishing Strong is my personal story of getting unstuck and moving forward toward a much better life. Each of the 12 chapters highlights an essential life lesson, a theme and related skills helps readers discover their own story through prompts and reflection questions. Forty-four skills that really work are included to help anyone take action to change the things that don’t work, because insight and awareness are not enough.

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Your Personal Guide

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Want some extra motivation on your journey to your best life ever? Here’s your Personal Guide, a helpful workbook to capture your thoughts and insights. This FREE downloadable Personal Guide, full of questions and roomy space to write, can become your trusted companion on your adventure to a life of joy!

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Esther’s Perspective

Motivated to Become Your Best Self?

As you read and engage with Getting Unstuck, you will be on your way to writing a new ending to your life’s story. You will:

  • learn why you act and think the way you do
  • understand important life lessons
  • learn skills to create a joyful life

Getting Unstuck

Explore Twelve Themes to Better Understand Yourself


Praises for Getting Unstuck

Over the years, many clients have wanted Esther to further share her insights and wisdom about dealing with people and problems. Getting Unstuck, co-authored by Martha Abbey Miller, is the book Esther’s clients asked for.

Jill Lederer, CEO

“You will love getting to know Esther. I’m thrilled she’s written this book for us all.”

Jennifer Porter, Non-profit Director

“Esther is someone whose voice rings true in her advice, since all she says has merit.”

Darren A. Lee, Executive Director

“This book is invaluable for those ‘in a rut’ who are looking to effect positive change in their lives.”

Tyler R. Tichelaar, PhD and Author

“Your life can be fun, productive, and even happy if you apply the principles Esther offers in Getting Unstuck.”

Esther’s Perspective

You Can Get Unstuck!

Are you stuck in a self-limiting mindset? Perhaps trapped inside your traumatic history? I sure was. As you read my story in Getting Unstuck, I suspect you’ll relate to it. Co-author Martha Abbey Miller and I designed the book to make it easy for you to engage with your own story.

Each chapter contains questions for your reflection and response. If you’d rather not write in your book, or if you’re using a Kindle, the companion Getting Unstuck Workbook is available here. I encourage you to Dig Deeper into your life, your story, and your potential, through the resources on this site.

About the Authors

A Collaboration


Esther Bleuel

Esther combines wisdom and compassion to help people effectively solve sticky personal or professional problems. Her services are based on partnership, trust, and proven solutions.


Martha Abbey Miller

Martha is a career communicator with a passion for bringing out the best in others. Her first book is Hope Personified: Frances Maschal Landers.

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