Chapter TWO
Being PowerlessAll We Can Do Is All We Can Do Within Our Sphere of Influence.
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It’s important to be realistic about whether we have the ability, authority, or skills to effect change. We may feel powerless when we realize many things are out of our control.
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Lessons
How Do Issues of Feeling Powerless Influence You Today?
Exercise Self-Control
We can only impact the people with whom we interact and the circumstances in which we engage. Often, we can contribute and make a difference. Sometimes, we cannot. We need to be realistic about our limitations.
Skills
How do I get unstuck? By learning new skills! When it comes to feeling powerless, consider mastering these: Manage expectations. Have perspective. Exercise self-control.
Getting Unstuck contains step-by-step, how-to details of these and many other skills. If you’re really stuck, perhaps I can help!
Perspective
“Children who grow up without acceptance and encouragement generally try to maintain control of their external environments.”
Esther Bleuel