Chapter Eleven

Attitude

It’s Not What Happens So Much. It’s How We Handle Things and What They Mean to Us That Count.

We have little or no control over many things that happen in life, including accidents, illness, bad luck, and genetics. We may be truly powerless. But never suffer for nothing. Learn something. Although it may seem hard, especially at first, we can learn to manage our own thoughts and behavior.

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Lessons

How Do Issues of Attitude Influence You Today?

Exemplify Attitude

Knowing the difference between what we can control and what we can’t is critical to maintaining equilibrium and focus. Deal in reality and think objectively. Our ability to know what is true helps us create a life with meaning, purpose, and joy.

Skills

How do I get unstuck? By learning new skills! When it comes to attitude, consider mastering these: Adopt a good attitude. Have perspective. Exercise self-control. Overcome the victim cycle.

Getting Unstuck contains step-by-step, how-to details of these and many other skills. If you’re really stuck, perhaps I can help!

Perspective

“You can’t un-ring a bell or erase an experience. But you can rise above it with a good attitude.”

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About Trust

We Can’t Always Believe What People Say, But We Will Always Believe What They Do.

About Being Powerless

All We Can Do Is All We Can Do Within Our Sphere of Influence.

About Self-Respect

It’s Our Responsibility to Be Important to Ourselves.

About Persistence

It’s Our Responsibility to Be Important to Ourselves.

About Forgiveness

Deciphering Our Childhood Is Not About Vilifying Our Parents. It’s About Understanding Why We Are the Way We Are.

About Focus

Start with the End in Mind.

About Perspective

Mistakes Are Okay. Just Be Sure to Make New Mistakes.

About Learning

We Must Learn Our Own Lessons, in Our Own Time, in Our Own Way.

About Boundaries

Let Our Yes Mean Yes and Our No Mean No.

About Wisdom

Knowing About is Not the Same as Truly Knowing.

About Attitude

It’s Not What Happens So Much. It’s How We Handle Things and What They Mean to Us That Count.

About Letting Go

We Will Never Forget a Painful Experience, But We Can Learn Not to Be Prisoners of Our Emotions.

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